Quick Note: Yes, this article is going to be a two part-er. How exciting is that? It’s like in the show 24 when you’re left anticipating the next episode to see what happens. This is going to be just like that... minus the anxiety or the question of why does Jack Bauer always end up in such … [Read more...]
Love Isn’t Ownership
*Tip: get through the first paragraph I’ve been in a committed relationship now for over two and a half years. It’s been really good. She can be a bit temperamental, but I know how she likes to be handled. She’s been reliable and has only let me down a couple of times. In the beginning it was … [Read more...]
Am I Cheating?
I recently spent a weekend at a relationship conference in Ottawa where I ran a booth and led some seminars as a way to promote my book Emotional Sex: Making Good Relationships Great. I did this same event last March in Toronto, which was when I met Rachelle Wilde, the Playboy Bunny... the sweet, … [Read more...]
What’s Your Relationship IQ?
When I go to conferences to promote my book, Emotional Sex: Making Good Relationships Great, (a sweet book… as in it’s good not that it tastes like chocolate… although that is an interesting concept; books that you can also eat) I have a sign that asks “What’s Your Relationship IQ?”. These … [Read more...]
Why I want to marry someone who is terrible at sex
(Please note: this discussion in no way implies judgement against those who think differently from me; I am, however, trying to point out a different way of thinking.) I want to marry someone who is terrible at sex... that’s not the usual statement people make, but for me I definitely don’t want … [Read more...]
Thong Th-Thong, Thong, Thong
The thong is a symbol of all that is good and evil in this world. Ladies, you need to be careful not to use them for evil but for good. Guys, you need to be careful not to use them... at all. Never. Maybe if it’s some type of joke to gross out your buddies or you’re wearing one to give your … [Read more...]
Dating Tips from Jesus cont’d: how much should you change when you’re in a relationship?
Last week we discussed how Jesus gave great advice for how to have a healthy dating/marriage relationship because he taught how to be more loving and accepting of others. The specific lesson we focused on was: “You are a light,” (Mat 5:14) which followed the brighter you shine with love the better … [Read more...]
Dating Advice from Jesus
Most people don’t realize it, but Jesus gave some of the best dating advice you’ll ever hear. I’m sure some of you are thinking, “But in Jesus’ day they didn’t date.” You would be correct. Marriage in those days was less: (So-called classy man) “You stir up my hormones; want to go out?” … [Read more...]