What would it take for you to believe the person in front of you was Elvis? I remember growing up and seeing National Enquirer front page news about Elvis being spotted beside articles about alien encounters. Even now I think the alien stories were slightly more believable. If someone … [Read more...]
Being Mean Without Realizing It Pt2
The other week my four year old made up a new song. Picture a very cute little girl with all sincerity singing the following words: “You love your cat... your cat’s your friend... and your cat’s going to die... your cats going to die... your cats going to die.” Sounds ruthless, doesn’t … [Read more...]
Being Mean Without Realizing It
This week I realized a major problem for people is being mean without realizing it. It can be as simple as not returning a text or not sharing an encouraging word when it’s needed. It can be not accepting a compliment well, which can discourage that person from offering compliments in … [Read more...]
Being the Perfect Nice Guy (& it wasn’t me)
My brother and I started a tradition last year with two friends where we go to an Edmonton Oilers versus Buffalo Sabres game. It’s a funny/sad experience because you’re in the Sabres’ arena and there’s more orange and blue in the stands than the home team colours, and when any cheering is … [Read more...]
The Next Step Beyond Focusing on What’s True
Last week we looked at the verse: “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” (Phil 4:8) Based on this verse, I taught the first … [Read more...]
Rev. Chad David, ChadDavid.ca, learning to love dumb people (like me)
The Importance of Being Direct - and having trust In the last few lessons I’ve mentioned how I’ve been trying to be more direct in how I communicate. For most of my adult life I’d say I was more of the “just take it” kind of person, which is essentially recognizing something is wrong, but … [Read more...]
What Trust Looks Like (Why Do Women Need Compliments? Pt4)
Last week I mentioned that my wife and I are in a particularly good spot with each other (that might sound like bragging... because it is). If we looked at a scale of 0 to 10 with 10 being the most trust and safety you can feel with someone (i.e. you can say something a little off, but it’s … [Read more...]
Nice-oholic Pt 20: Something that Prevents us from being nice
I once knew a woman who told her son, “You can be right or you can be kind.” Her son was very argumentative because he always chose wanting to be right. At her funeral, her son shared with the audience that looking back maybe he should’ve chose being kind like his mom did. It’s amazing how easy … [Read more...]
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