Lots or people think they’re a good person, but... um... no. They’re pretty lousy. What is a good person? I know people who say: “I’m good to my family and friends, so I’m a good person.” Wow, big accomplishment; you’re good to people you like. And apparently we have two different ideas of good … [Read more...]
Forgive & Forget is Dumb
In my book Emotional Sex: Making Good Relationships Great I teach ‘forgive & protect’ because we need to be finding the lesson in our hurt in order to prevent it from happening again. This past week I was reminded of this. Alyshia and I never shared a bed before we got married... yeah, I was … [Read more...]
How to Get Along with the People You Live With
Living with someone(s) can be hard whether it’s family, a partner/spouse, or random roommate. I am currently living what many people fear: Being married and living at home with your mom. My wife and I are in this situation not by choice – I’m not that big a loser – but because our house isn’t … [Read more...]
Why I recommend waiting for marriage to have sex
(Before the ceremony) After 35 years and a 9 year relationship, I will be getting married, which mean I will soon no longer be saying that I’m a 35 year old virgin... assuming my bride doesn’t run away... or that I don’t get into a car accident on the way to the wedding or to the hotel after. … [Read more...]
Are you limiting your happiness?
This week a wise woman said to me that a major reason for the lack of happiness and the emotional struggles we face in our society are based on first world problems. She explained that our culture is a breeding ground for over thinking things and making the small stuff huge. She shared a story … [Read more...]
How would you respond?
This week I want to present three situations I recently experienced as a way to ask how you would respond: Today I was at a wedding reception at Michelangelo’s, and I had to run back to my car because I forgot my tooth brush... you know, a typical thing people forget to bring in with them to a … [Read more...]
Do you have the same problem as me?
This week I noticed that I have a problem... not the first time I’ve had this experience... I’m sure you’re surprised to read that. The sad thing is it’s actually a pretty common problem that most of us don’t really think about because so many people do it. I have a tendency to “brag” about how … [Read more...]
A Trick to Make Life Seem Better
As you are well aware, life has its ups and downs... at least I hope you are aware of this; if not, you must live in a magic bubble I wish I could visit. In life, we are guaranteed to experience times that are really great, times that suck, and times that just pass by without any real feeling … [Read more...]
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