Relationship Lessons

The 5 Minute Relationship Fix

March 27, 2016 by Chad

Spring is a time of renewal and rebirth, which makes it the perfect time to refresh your relationship. Whether things are going great or terrible, it’s wise to try to bring some new life to it in order to protect both you and your partner. Ultimately, everyone is capable of cheating given the … [Read more...]

How to cheat & get away with it

February 28, 2016 by Chad

Warning: This post informs both people wanting to cheat and people who are suspicious of their partner’s fidelity. Tip: Know why you’re cheating: If you’re going to cheat, you better have a good reason for doing it because it’s eventually going to destroy your world as you know it. Whether it’s … [Read more...]

Why Porn is Good

February 21, 2016 by Chad

Yes, this is an unusual title for a post written by a reverend, but it’s true. And it has to be true based on the one saying I’m constantly using: There’s good in all things. Understanding this is actually the key to happiness. In fact, most of my job as a therapist is to help people recognize the … [Read more...]

How to have Great Sex OR Be a Great Kisser

January 31, 2016 by Chad

Have you ever heard the expression, “You don’t buy a shoe without trying it on”? I hate this saying. Yes, I agree you should try on shoes before buying them... that just makes sense... but this statement is used to explain why you “need” to have sex with someone before you get married. Um, I … [Read more...]

How to have Great Sex

January 24, 2016 by Chad

I really enjoy the show Royal Pains, but in the second season the one female character says to an engaged Indian woman who is following her culture’s belief of saving sex to marriage, “How can you marry him if you haven’t had sex? What if it’s bad?” Um, is that why you marry someone because they’re … [Read more...]

How to Save Your Relationship & Why am I Single?

January 10, 2016 by Chad

As an award winning therapist... I threw the ‘award winning’ part because I want to sound professional... and it’s nice to have something to brag about for a change. But as an award winning therapist with a problem with being humble and as a former youth pastor of eight years... no award there... a … [Read more...]

How to End War & Domestic Fights

November 22, 2015 by Chad

Ending war is a lot like ending conflict with a spouse, which is very different than stopping a bully. In the typical bully situation, the victim needs to stand up to the bully to show he or she isn’t afraid and will do what it takes to stand his or her ground. What this means changes in the … [Read more...]

5 Tips for Saving Money on your Wedding

September 27, 2015 by Chad

Getting married is amazing... but not worth going into serious debt over. The best part of my wedding last month was seeing old friends and laughing at what we’ve been through. Plus, it gave me a glimpse of what it feels like to be a celebrity with paparazzi following me around constantly taking … [Read more...]