A friend recently asked me, “How can I be a good person?” And when I say “friend” I don’t mean my imaginary friend (he’s not that self reflective). Misleading people isn’t a quality associated to being a good person... or is it? Either way, asking annoying questions just makes you annoying (well … [Read more...]
What Do You Suggest?
Five years ago I was taught when people reach nursing home status they typically ask three basic questions: Did I live? Did I love? Did I matter? These three questions have bounced in my head on and off since I first heard them, and I can confidently say yes to all three because I’ve been blessed … [Read more...]
An Important Question We Should Ask Ourselves
This week during a therapy session I asked an excellent question. It was the kind of question that makes a client glad you’re the therapist. It was the kind of question I should have asked years ago, but somehow missed it because years of dumbness got in the way. It started with the typical … [Read more...]