I have made many young people angry over the years with my claim that guys and girls can almost never be friends. If they are adamant that I’m wrong, what I sometimes add next is almost guaranteed to make them angry… which I’ll share shortly. A million years ago when I was a teenager, I worked at … [Read more...]
Why People who have Affairs are Stupid
People who have affairs are stupid. I don’t mean that an as insult; it’s more of a fact… sometimes. Some people who have affairs are just stupid. Most people who are caught having affairs will adamantly admit what they did was stupid (even if what was stupid to them was getting caught). What … [Read more...]
Why People Cheat (& why everyone is capable of cheating)
As a therapist I have seen my share of couples who are dealing with infidelity. One of the challenges a couple faces at a time like this is understanding why or how this can happen. The bottom line is we’re all capable of cheating; it just takes the right timing and circumstances, which is why … [Read more...]
How to cheat & get away with it
Warning: This post informs both people wanting to cheat and people who are suspicious of their partner’s fidelity. Tip: Know why you’re cheating: If you’re going to cheat, you better have a good reason for doing it because it’s eventually going to destroy your world as you know it. Whether it’s … [Read more...]
Am I Cheating?
I recently spent a weekend at a relationship conference in Ottawa where I ran a booth and led some seminars as a way to promote my book Emotional Sex: Making Good Relationships Great. I did this same event last March in Toronto, which was when I met Rachelle Wilde, the Playboy Bunny... the sweet, … [Read more...]