From my experience, women tend to be external processors (aka talkers) while guys tend to be internal processors (aka in their head). That’s a fun difference: (woman) “Why don’t you talk more?” (guy) “There’s nothing to talk about.” (woman) “I want you to tell me about your feelings.” (guy) … [Read more...]
The Most Important Commonality between Men & Women (Pt 6: Differences between men & women)
What I’m about to claim may seem a little Christian-y (although the text I’m considering is also used by Jews and Muslims). Despite its religious affiliation, however, this lesson is valuable for everyone to see since it has huge implications, and not understanding it has led to some tragic … [Read more...]
The 5 Types of Women (Pt 3: Differences between men & women)
Understanding how men and women are different can save a relationship because it helps give us fair expectations of each other. The last two weeks I’ve looked at the five modes of a guy and the five types of guys. Breaking down how a man works is pretty easy. Women... are more complex – shocker. … [Read more...]
Why Guys Don’t Listen to Their Wives
As a therapist, I regularly hear women complain that their husbands don’t listen to them. Does my wife complain about this? I don’t know. That’d require me to listen to her. What’s funny is a lot of women think I’m a great listener and will even say how lucky my wife is, but then I point out if I … [Read more...]
The Danger for Well-Intentioned People (a tip for Christmas)
Bonus: For FREE, you can download a PDF of my book, The Happy Squire: Christmas stories to encourage and inspire, at http://www.chaddavid.ca/books/ The other week, my wife reminded me of the danger well-intentioned people have, especially in the holiday season. Another word for “well-intentioned … [Read more...]
Another Male & Female Difference Discussed
The other week my wife and I had to sign some paperwork at a lawyer’s office... no, we’re fine; it wasn’t that kind of lawyer. As we were walking from our car to the office, I noticed my wife was struggling, which was unusual. The reason? Heels. Between kids and covid she hasn’t really worn heels … [Read more...]
A Big Difference Between Men & Women
The other week I experienced a situation that led to learning a very strong difference between men and women. The bonus is this story also points out the best way to deal with a potential fight situation, which means this post is a 2 for 1deal. The day started like most. I brought down my three … [Read more...]