As a marriage therapist it’s amazing how some of the biggest fights I hear about start over nothing. What leads to divorce isn’t a particular issue or event. For instance, as bad as an affair is, it doesn’t mean the relationship is over. What causes the end of a relationship is when one or both … [Read more...]
What’s Good about Falling on my Face
Falling on my face metaphorically has been a regular occurrence throughout my life. Physically? Not so much. I do my best to avoid risky activities... you know, like a wuss. The other night, however, I got to do a full out old man fall. This is the kind of fall where, if people saw it, they … [Read more...]
Why I Admire my Sister
My sister has cancer... that’s not why I admire her; that’d be a very strange reason. I admire her because she has always been a thoughtful and generous person and getting cancer hasn’t changed that. I think the best word that sums up all of her good qualities is kind. She’s not, however, the … [Read more...]
Why Men Look at Porn
Please Note: This exercise can be used as the start of ending someone’s addiction to porn and/or reduce a woman’s belief that a guy watches porn because she’s somehow not good enough. Porn is a popular topic... it’s not necessarily “popular”, but it is popular... this post is off to a great … [Read more...]
Story: What Makes a Parent Happy
Edward’s toast for his dad was presented in that perfect way that left everyone in tears. This was the perfect speech that came after the perfect trip celebrating his dad’s seventy fifth birthday all of which was paid for by Edward because Edward was rich... like really rich... like really, really … [Read more...]
Learning to Love Dumb People
I have been using ‘Learning to love dumb people’ as a business slogan for over six years now. It started when I was working at a trade show trying to get people’s attention and I randomly threw out, “Learn to love the dumb people in your lives,” and most people laughed and were then open to what I … [Read more...]
The Best People Think They’re the Worst and Vice Versa
“Am I a good or bad person?” Oddly enough, if you ask a question like this to yourself you’re likely a good person... emphasis on “likely”; just because you ask this question doesn’t mean you are guaranteed to be a good person. Bad people have asked this question too; it’s just unlikely unless … [Read more...]
Is Someone You Know Passive Aggressive?
Passive aggressive behaviour seems to be on the up rise, especially among young people. This sucks. What’s scary is this is the most damaging anger style. Even worse, most people don’t really know how to define passive aggressive behaviour; they know the term and can sometimes recognize it when … [Read more...]
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